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		<title>Leadership:  Start with &#8220;Why&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2010/05/10/leadership-start-with-why/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 23:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In his compelling and inspirational TED talk (see video below), Simon Sinek presents a core leadership principle:  start with &#8220;why.&#8221;

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In his compelling and inspirational TED talk (see video below), <a href="http://www.ted.com/speakers/simon_sinek.html">Simon Sinek</a> presents a core leadership principle:  start with &#8220;why.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Provocative Video:  &#8220;The Story of Stuff&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2010/04/16/provocative-video-the-story-of-stuff/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 14:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Politics]]></category>

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		<title>Great Talks at TED Conference 2010</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2010/03/09/great-talks-at-ted-conference-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 13:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Want a dose of inspiration?  Check out the TED Conference talks, which you can view online.
Here are some talks from this year&#8217;s conference that I found inspiring and fascinating:  &#8220;Daniel Kahnman:  The riddle of experience vs. memory&#8220;; &#8220;Raghava KK:  Five lives of an artist&#8220;; &#8220;James Cameron:  Before Avatar &#8230; a curious boy&#8220;; and &#8220;Bill Gates [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Want a dose of <strong>inspiration</strong>?  Check out the <a href="http://www.ted.com" target="_self">TED Conference talks</a>, which you can view online.</p>
<p>Here are some talks from this year&#8217;s conference that I found inspiring and fascinating:  &#8220;<a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/daniel_kahneman_the_riddle_of_experience_vs_memory.html" target="_self">Daniel Kahnman:  The riddle of experience vs. memory</a>&#8220;; &#8220;<a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/raghava_kk_five_lives_of_an_artist.html" target="_self">Raghava KK:  Five lives of an artist</a>&#8220;; &#8220;<a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/james_cameron_before_avatar_a_curious_boy.html" target="_self">James Cameron:  Before Avatar &#8230; a curious boy</a>&#8220;; and &#8220;<a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/bill_gates.html" target="_self">Bill Gates on energy:  innovating to zero!</a>&#8221; (which you can watch below).</p>
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		<title>Ready to be Inspired?  Check Out Ode</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2009/05/13/ready-to-be-inspired-check-out-ode/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 23:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional & Spiritual Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[According to its website, Ode Magazine and online community is for intelligent optimists.   The magazine and online community features inspiring stories of people making a difference in the world.
You can experience the current issue of the magazine online.  I say experience because some articles include compelling videos, such as the video below which features [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-383" style="border: 1px solid black; margin: 8px;" title="ode magazine" src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/ode.jpeg" alt="" width="200" height="265" />According to its website, <strong><a href="http://www.odemagazine.com/" target="_self"><em>Ode Magazine</em> and online community</a></strong> is for intelligent optimists.   The magazine and online community features <strong>inspiring</strong> <strong>stories</strong> of people making a difference in the world.</p>
<p>You can <strong>experience</strong> the <a href="http://www.odemagazine.com/doc/" target="_self">current issue</a> of the magazine online.  I say experience because some articles include compelling <strong>videos</strong>, such as the video below which features Krishnammal Jagannathan speaking about India&#8217;s complex caste system, and what it&#8217;s like to be labeled an &#8220;untouchable.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Lastly, as you may know, I&#8217;m drawn toward anything involving <strong>pie</strong>.  So, naturally, I was drawn toward an article in the current issue entitled, &#8220;<a href="http://www.odemagazine.com/doc/62/mission-pie/" target="_self">Mission Pie teaches city youth about food</a>.&#8221;</p>
<p>Karen Heisler, co-founder of <a href="http://www.pieranch.org" target="_self">Pie Ranch</a> (yes, Pie Ranch!) and Mission Pie, said something I&#8217;ve been saying for years:  &#8220;Pie is a great vehicle to work with.&#8221;</p>
<p>(Thank you, &#8220;Downtown&#8221; Scotty Brown, for introducing me to Ode.)</p>
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		<title>Great Resume Tips from Guy Kawasaki</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2009/03/17/great-resume-tips-from-guy-kawasaki/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 14:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Humor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[As I continue to search for a full-time job, I continue to learn about job searching (lucky me).
I&#8217;m finding it challenging to write a cover letter and resume that stands out &#8212; and that will get me an interview.
I&#8217;m now more tempted than ever to do crazy things (such as the Redbox photo shoot), or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I continue to search for a full-time job, I continue to <strong>learn</strong> about job searching (lucky me).</p>
<p>I&#8217;m finding it <strong>challenging</strong> to write a cover letter and resume that stands out &#8212; and that will get me an interview.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m now more tempted than ever to do crazy things (such as the <a href="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2009/02/20/job-hunt-the-redbox-photo-shoot/" target="_self">Redbox photo shoot</a>), or write crazy things (see cover letter below), to get noticed.</p>
<p>Perhaps, though, if I just follow Guy Kawasaki&#8217;s <strong><a href="http://blog.guykawasaki.com/2009/02/guest-post-memo.html" target="_self">resume writing advice</a></strong>, I&#8217;ll land a big fish.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-302" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 7px 5px;" title="karlstraussbeerkegs" src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/karlstraussbeerkegs.gif" alt="" width="144" height="125" />As a side note, I&#8217;m often <strong>very tempted</strong> to write funny, somewhat crazy cover letters, just to see if I get any response.  As an example, here&#8217;s the opening paragraph of the cover letter I wrote for a <strong>&#8220;beer ambassador&#8221;</strong> job with <a href="http://www.karlstrauss.com/" target="_self">Karl Strauss Brewing Company</a>, which is based in San Diego.</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Karl Strauss Staff,</p>
<p>I’m trying to stay seated as I type &#8212; this is my dream job!  If you have any doubt how PASSIONATE I am about good, micro-brewed beer, ask my good buddy Scotty (847-508-4215) how much crap I give him for drinking Coors Light.  On top of that, I absolutely LOVE Karl Strauss beers (especially the Red Trolley Ale!).</p></blockquote>
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		<title>How to Become a More Effective Learner</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2009/02/11/how-to-become-a-more-effective-learner/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 15:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a curious person and love to learn (sometimes doctors remove brain tumors through patients&#8217; noses!), and I found the following article really helpful:  &#8220;How to Become a More Effective Learner.&#8221;
One of the tips that really resonates with me is &#8220;teach what you&#8217;ve learned to another person.&#8221;
My roommate Randy and I practice this a lot.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-239" style="border: 1px solid black; margin: 7px;" title="andy thinking" src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/andy-thinking.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="220" />I&#8217;m a curious person and love to learn (sometimes doctors remove brain tumors through patients&#8217; noses!), and I found the following article really helpful:  <a href="http://psychology.about.com/od/educationalpsychology/tp/effective-learning.htm" target="_blank">&#8220;How to Become a More Effective Learner.&#8221;</a></p>
<p>One of the tips that really resonates with me is <strong>&#8220;teach what you&#8217;ve learned to another person.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>My roommate <a href="http://www.02.01.snc1.facebook.com/people/Randy-Guenther/761869576" target="_blank">Randy</a> and I practice this a lot.  For instance, if I notice him reading a book, I&#8217;ll ask, <strong>&#8220;What did you learn?&#8221;</strong> And I&#8217;ll keep asking until he answers.</p>
<p>If he refuses to answer, I&#8217;ll begin poking him.  That almost always works, and then everybody learns:  I learn new, interesting things and he deepens his learning by teaching me (even if he does it just to stop me from annoying him).</p>
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		<title>Watch Elizabeth Gilbert at the TED Conference</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2009/02/11/watch-elizabeth-gilbert-at-the-ted-conference/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 14:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Books]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Elizabeth Gilbert is the author of Eat, Pray, Love, which I read this past year and really loved.  It&#8217;s funny, touching, deep (at times profound), fascinating and really funny (or did I already say that).  In it Gilbert shares incredibly vulnerably about her journey of emotional and spiritual growth.
Gilbert recently spoke at the TED Conference, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-236" style="border: 1px solid black; margin: 7px;" title="elizabeth gilbert" src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/elizabeth-gilbert.jpg" alt="" width="203" height="153" />Elizabeth Gilbert is the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Eat-Pray-Love-Everything-Indonesia/dp/0143038419" target="_blank"><em>Eat, Pray, Love</em></a>, which I read this past year and really loved.  It&#8217;s funny, touching, deep (at times profound), fascinating and really funny (or did I already say that).  In it Gilbert shares incredibly vulnerably about her journey of <strong>emotional and spiritual growth</strong>.</p>
<p>Gilbert recently spoke at the <a href="http://www.ted.com/index.php/" target="_blank">TED Conference</a>, an annual conference about ideas.  Her short <a href="http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/elizabeth_gilbert_on_genius.html" target="_blank">talk</a> (I think all talks at the TED Conference have to be under twenty minutes) is about a different way to think about creative genius.  It&#8217;s funny, fascinating and touching (kind of like <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>, huh?).  Enjoy!</p>
<p>(Quick side note:  <a href="http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks" target="_blank">many of the talks</a> from this year&#8217;s TED Conference are available online for free.  Some of the smartest, most interesting people from around the world shared their ideas.  Perhaps give yourself a personal development gift by carving out some time to watch one, two or ten talks.)</p>
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		<title>Joseph Campbell:  &#8220;Follow Your Bliss&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2008/07/03/joseph-campbell-follow-your-bliss/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 01:04:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joseph Campbell, who died in 1987 at age 83, is perhaps best known for this simple but profound saying:  &#8220;Follow your bliss.&#8221;
Campbell was a scholar, who studied the role of mythology in cultural and human development, especially in the areas of spiritual, psychological and religious development.   (Side note:  Campbell was a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/josephcampbell.jpg" alt="Joseph Campbell" align="left" hspace="7" vspace="7" /><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Campbell" target="_blank"><strong>Joseph Campbell</strong></a>, who died in 1987 at age 83, is perhaps best known for this simple but profound saying:  <strong>&#8220;Follow your bliss.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Campbell was a scholar, who studied the role of mythology in cultural and human development, especially in the areas of spiritual, psychological and religious development.   (Side note:  Campbell was a big fan of psychologist <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Jung" target="_blank">Carl Jung</a>, who I&#8217;m a big fan of, too.)</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve only read snippets of his writings, but I want to read more.  His ideas fascinate me, and many resonate with me.</p>
<p>If I understand Campbell correctly, the <strong>most important</strong> thing you can do for yourself and the world is &#8220;follow your bliss&#8221; &#8230; because that will lead to your own fulfillment and meet the needs of the world.</p>
<p>Yet, according to a blurb on the Joseph Campbell Foundation website, <em>&#8220;it is important to note that following one&#8217;s bliss, as Campbell saw it, isn&#8217;t merely a matter of <strong>doing whatever you like</strong>, and certainly not doing simply as you are told.  It is a matter of <strong>identifying that pursuit</strong> which you are truly passionate about and attempting to <strong>give yourself absolutely to it</strong>.  In so doing, you will find your fullest potential and serve your community to the greatest possible extent.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>I appreciate what therapist Margaret Paul wrote in reference to Campbell&#8217;s saying:  <em>&#8220;Following your bliss &#8211; following what brings you joy &#8211; is the way toward <strong>your highest good</strong>.  How wonderful that we have such a direct and profound way of knowing what is in our highest good!&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Now, if only following my bliss was as easy as it sounds!  I find it difficult to <em>trust</em> my bliss.</p>
<p>To that, Campbell might say, <em>&#8220;&#8230; don&#8217;t be afraid, and doors will open where you didn&#8217;t know they were going to be.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re interested in learning more about Campbell&#8217;s life and ideas, check out the <a href="http://www.jcf.org" target="_blank"><strong>Joseph Campbell Foundation website</strong></a> and the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Campbell" target="_blank"><strong>Joseph Campbell Wikipedia entry</strong></a>.</p>
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		<title>The Benefits of Failure &#8211; J.K. Rowling&#039;s Remarks</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 01:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[J.K. Rowling, author of the Harry Potter series, recently gave the commencement address at Harvard&#8217;s graduation ceremony.  During her address, which is touching, funny and deep, she talked about the benefits of failure.
While sharing about some of her own failures, she said:  &#8220;&#8230; failure meant a stripping away of the inessential.  I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/jkrowling.jpg" alt="JK Rowling" align="left" hspace="7" vspace="7" />J.K. Rowling, author of the <em>Harry Potter</em> series, recently gave the <strong>commencement address</strong> at Harvard&#8217;s graduation ceremony.  During her address, which is touching, funny and deep, she talked about the benefits of failure.</p>
<p>While sharing about some of her own failures, she said:  &#8220;&#8230; failure meant <strong>a stripping away</strong> of the inessential.  I <strong>stopped pretending</strong> to myself that I was anything other than what I was &#8230; I was set <strong>free</strong>, because my greatest fear had already been realized, and I was still alive &#8230; <strong>rock bottom</strong> became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think that&#8217;s a pretty good description of the transformational journey from false self to true self.</p>
<p>You can <strong><a href="http://harvardmagazine.com/go/jkrowling.html" target="_blank">read or watch the entire address</a></strong> on the <em>Harvard Magazine</em> website.</p>
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		<title>Clean Talk:  A Communication and Relationship Tool</title>
		<link>http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/2008/06/02/clean-talk-a-communication-and-relationship-tool/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 23:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andypad</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The good folks at Shadow Work recently produced the Clean Talk CD.  Alyce Barry (in photo at left), who helped produce the CD, describes the Clean Talk process as &#8220;the cleanest, most effective way of making any difficult conversation safe and productive.&#8221;  I plan to order a copy.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.smoochthesoul.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/alice-barry.thumbnail.gif" alt="Alice Barry" align="left" hspace="7" vspace="7" />The good folks at <a href="http://www.shadowwork.com" target="_blank">Shadow Work</a> recently produced the <strong><a href="http://www.shadowwork.com/cleantalkcd.html" target="_blank">Clean Talk CD</a></strong>.  <a href="http://www.alycebarry.com/index.html" target="_blank">Alyce Barry</a> (in photo at left), who helped produce the CD, describes the Clean Talk process as &#8220;the cleanest, most effective way of making any difficult conversation safe and productive.&#8221;  I plan to order a copy.</p>
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